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7/10
Just watch the last fifteen minutes
katierose2956 September 2006
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The sad part about this episode is that it's really funny... If you wait it out until the end. The last fifteen minutes of the episode are excellent, with Anya, Willow, Buffy and Dawn all under a love spell and fighting over a high school student named RJ. Xander and Spike try to stop them, which leads to some really hilarious scenes. Unfortunately, you have to wait through half-an-hour of... Well... Nothing in order to get to the fun stuff. "Him" doesn't really add a lot to the over all story arc this season. You could probably skip it and not miss much. But, the end of the episode, at least, is worth a look.

"Him" revolves around Dawn's new crush. She's talking to Buffy, trying to understand love, and suddenly she sees **him.** RJ the Sunnydale High quarterback. "Theme from 'A Summer Place'" starts playing in her head and Dawn is hopelessly smitten. She begins trying to get his attention. Approaching him in the hallways, trying out for the cheer leading squad, dirty dancing with him at the Bronze etc... Meanwhile, Buffy is growing more concerned about the evil rising in Sunnydale. Convinced that something bad is headed their way, she starts centralizing her friends. She brings Anya to her house and she drags Spike out of the school basement and moves him in with Xander. Spike isn't ranting anymore, but he's still not himself. He's quiet and uncomfortable around the Scoobies. Xander isn't exactly thrilled to have Spike as a roommate, but he's willing to let Spike sleep in his closet and drag Spike around with him on Scoobie assignments.

In fact, a new Scoobie case has developed. As Dawn becomes more and more fixated on RJ, Buffy decides to talk with the boy. Soon she begins falling in love with him, too. Xander is shocked when he finds Buffy making out with the kid. Dawn is hurt and furious. But Buffy insists that she and RJ are meant for each other. Realizing that it has to be a spell, Xander heads over to RJ's house to investigate. He brings Spike along. While they're there, Spike remarks that in the family photos RJ and his brother are wearing the same jacket. Xander decides that the jacket must be enchanted.

Back at the Summers' house, RJ shows up looking for Buffy. Anya and Willow turn him away. But as they watch him go, they both fall under his spell, too. Soon Willow is plotting to make him a woman so she can have RJ for herself. Anya (after she figures out his name) swears that RJ is her best friend and sets out to rob a bank for him. Dawn decides to kill herself as a declaration of love. And Buffy swears to kill Principal Wood for RJ. Spike and Xander show up just in time to stop Willow from mystically castrating RJ. Then they hurry off to the high school to stop Buffy. Finally coming out of the spell a bit, Buffy rescues Dawn from an on coming train. Then, Spike and Xander steal the jacket and burn it.

There are some great moments in this episode. Xander is such a good sport, letting Spike live with him, again. (They also shared the Harris' basement back in season four and "Him" really should have brought that up. But since it does show a clip from season two's "Bewitiched, Bothered and Bewildered," I'm willing to cut it some slack. ) Xander has never been Spike's biggest fan-- and he's been flat out furious at Spike since "Entropy" and "Seeing Red" back in season six-- But, he still invited Spike into his apartment. Xander apparently doesn't even follow through with his threat to stick Spike in the closet. By "Sleeper" Spike has his own room. Xander has a good heart underneath all his grumbling. And I love Xander's plan to solve the RJ problem, too. He and Spike just dash up and grab it off the kid. Then they run away. Hilarious. Finally, Buffy, Willow, Anya and Dawn all vying for RJ is great. Willow's excitement over her plan to make him a girl... Dawn weeping about the "trueness" of their love... Anya decked out like a bank robber... Buffy showing up at Sunnnydale High with a missile launcher while Spike wrestles it away from her... It's probably the funniest sequence in the entire season.

On the down side, this episode would be better if it got to the main joke a little bit faster. Like I said, Anya, Willow, Buffy and Dawn should have all been fighting over RJ from the beginning. We have to wait and wait, while Dawn and random Sunnydale High students bicker over him before the episode really gets started. Also, I wish we'd gotten some more play out of Anya's bank robbery in later episodes. What happens to the money? And, why did the Scoobies learn about Spike getting his soul off screen? When did Buffy tell them? That would have been a great scene and I can't believe that they didn't show it.

My favorite part of the episode: Spike and Xander visiting RJ's house. While Xander talks to RJ's brother, Spike wanders around the living room. When he see a group of little angel figurines on a shelf, he carefully begins turning them all around so they can't look at him. I'm not sure it's because of his grandsire Angel, or if Spike is just nuts, or if he's somehow trying to "hide" from God, or if he ashamed and doesn't want the angels to see the darkness inside him. But, whatever the reason, it's just a really cool little moment.
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8/10
The last ten minutes...
wms-9274115 August 2022
...are worth investing the rest of the time. This isn't one of the best episodes of BtVS, not even close, but the final act is quite funny. Memorably so, in fact. It's the thing about this series: even when it's not at it's best, it's still going to implant permanent memories in your head.

That song, by the way, is called "A Summer Place."
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8/10
The One Where Buffy And Dawn Fall For The Same Guy...
taylorkingston6 December 2014
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I love this episode. It's so interesting.

In this episode, Dawn falls for a guy at her school. He is the perfect guy. He's good looking, he plays on the football team and he can get any girl he wants. And he chooses to go out with Dawn. But she acts a bit slutty at The Bronze, where Buffy is, and Buffy embarrasses her in front of the guy. But then, Buffy and he make out, later at school, and Dawn walks in. Everyone is falling in love with this guy. And Dawn and Buffy go to great lengths to prove their love. Dawn is going to kill herself by being run over by a train. Buffy is going to kill the principle. And Willow, who is gay, by the way, is going to cast a spell. Eventually, Xander and Spike snap them out of their trance and they discover that it was his football jersey that is causing everyone to fall for him.

Overall, I give this episode an 8 out of 10.
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6/10
Has some moments
ossie8524 August 2022
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Dawn falls head over heals for a Sunnydale jock named RJ, in fact all the girls are. Buffy is worried about Dawn's obsession with him. To make matters worse, Buffy falls for him. Then Anya falls him. Then Willow (yes, the lesbian) falls for him. Sound suspicious?

Why It's So Good - Similar to 'Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered', and there are some great moments, particularly towards the end with some cool comedic bits. But ultimately not a huge fan.

Watch Out For - Buffy going after Principal Wood with a rocket launcher.

Quote - "He was walking away, so unless his soul was in his a** . ." - Willow about Anya seeing RJ's soul.
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10/10
All hail Dawn, pushy queen of slut town!
Joxerlives20 July 2012
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The Good; ALL OF IT! Just wonderful, love it to death, amongst many favourite bits have to be Dawn falling off the audience stands, Dawn's lap-dance, Dawn's cat-fight, Buffy seducing RJ, the split-screen stuff, Spike and Buffy wrestling over the rocket launcher, Buffy subtly screwing Dawn over for RJ's affections, Xander's KISS plan for getting the jacket back, the list goes on!

The Bad; Nada, it's all terrific! Actually rather stupid that D'Hoffryn has just 'changed his mind' and now wants Anya killed. Did he want her to suffer for a while or is he in league with The First? Then again the demon might be sent by someone else Anya wronged now that D'Hoffryn no longer protects her?

Best line; Xander (reminding Spike of their 'plan') "Grab it!"

Women good/men bad; RJ's dad used his enchanted jacket to seduce the girls (in fairness to RJ and his brother they don't know that, they just think they're popular because they're good-looking football stars). One question, 23 year old teaching assistant Buffy seduces 16 year old RJ (statuatory rape in California), every schoolboy's fantasy. If it was Dawn and a male staff member, what would we think?

Jeez!; I know it's hysterically funny but Dawn's cheer-leading routine just makes me cringe, you feel for her every time. Which of us haven't embarrassed ourselves trying to impress the object of our affections? You also feel bad for Buffy when a distraught Dawn cuts up her outfit. Buffy implies that Joyce would be ashamed to see how Dawn is acting but rapidly realises that this is a step too far and takes it back. Then again when you look at Buffy and Spike and 'teenage' Joyce and Ripper you wonder if she'd actually be shocked at all? Maybe it runs in the Summer's family?

Kinky dinky;

Dawn in a cheerleader costume (Xander hopes Buffy get's a new one), giving RJ a lap-dance then has a great big girly cat-fight complete with hair pulling, scratching and rolling around on top of one another.

Buffy puts on her plaid schoolgirl skirt and a blouse (to make herself look younger?) and get's it on with RJ on the school desk. Buffy describes Dawn as a slut-bag/hussy and thinks should go down to the docks and wait for the fleet to come in. Is that how she supported herself in LA prior to waitressing in 'Anne'? Dawn thinks Buffy is hot and is seemingly envious that she has 'sex that's rough'

Captain Subtext; In a riposte to the evidence for being Bi Willow wants to turn RJ into a girl so she can love him. Then again Willow says her attraction isn't about physical presence which is interesting when you think of her later comments to Kennedy that she fell in love with 'A woman rather than women'. When Anya points out that RJ's 'physical presence has a penis' Willow says she can work around it. Like Xander she confesses a sexual attraction to Dawn 'Right there with you buddy!". Spike is meanwhile back in the closet, at Xanders? RJ's brother was worried that he found poetry under his younger brother's bed. Spike seems fascinated by the 'Angel' figurines at Lance's house.

Total number of scoobies: 6, Anya and Spike back in the fold

Scoobies shot: Buffy produces the rocket launcher Xander procured for her in 'Innocence'. You can't help but think that might have been useful against Glory and Adam and especially The Beast which AI are currently battling.

Dawn the bashful virgin; Not any more, Joyce's little girl is all slutted up and hot-to-trot! It's a bit much that Buffy criticises Dawn's outfit considering some of the stuff SHE used to wear in season 1&2, the leopardskin miniskirt from BBB as exhibit A (and that was BEFORE she got hit with Xander's love whammy!)

What the fanficcers thought; The cliché of an enchanted object or spell going wrong making one character irresistible to all is a feature of more fics than you can shake a stick at!

Notches on the Scooby bedpost? What happens between Buffy and RJ before Xander bursts in or indeed after he leaves? (Check out the little 'We've still got time' look they trade when Xander leaves). Put him down as a possible. And RJ and Dawn? What did they get up to before The Bronze? Without any evidence we must presume Dawn is still 'hymenally challenged' in the words of 'Clueless' at least in the Bill Clinton sense.

Buffy and Dawn more than sisters; Buffy's love for Dawn seems to overcome the power of the spell again implying a deeper connection between her and Dawn than just sisters.

Questions and observations; Note Buffy still drives Joyce's Geekmobile. Badly! Oz's old favourite 'The Theme from a Summer Place' is used for when the girls fall in love whilst when we switch to split screen the music get's very Charlie's Angels (who doesn't love a bit of funk guitar?). We know that CC doesn't have a sister but wouldn't it be wonderful if the head cheerleader was her cousin or something? Did RJ's brother know Daryl Epps? If Xander was on the SDH swim-team shouldn't he have his own athletics jacket? Dawn refers to Monty Python's Spanish Inquisition sketch, been hanging with Xander WAAAYY too much! Buffy's hair looks very similar to SMG's porn star character's in Southland Tales.

Marks out of 10; 10/10, I know a lot of people don't like this one too much but I love it, in a pretty serious season it's such a fun, amusing romp, could only be better if Faith, Joyce and Tara were present. The first ep I watched this season and then immediately went back and watched it all again then watched it for a third time the morning after.
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10/10
A teenage girl with a crush
temkobery1 May 2020
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I loved this episode. It is not one of my favorites but it was funny and interesting. Even though it was just a spell, the way Dawn fell for R.J. and acted was cute. Teenage girls with an actual crush do things like that all the time. The way she constantly embarrassed herself was funny and the skimpy outfit was a smart way to get his attention. Something admirable. The way buffy wore a scanty schoolgirl outfit to impress R.J. was also cute. Even if she was a teacher violating a student. The way she straddled him was funny. She sat on and rode him like a horse.
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10/10
A girl in love with a boy
iabdalghaffar10 September 2018
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This was a great episode. Despite the characters being under a spelIt showed how real teenage and young girls act when they get a crush. I love when Buffy said "get ready to feel even stupider when it is not" over a spell. It is a glimpse of what being a teenage/young girl is like.
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8/10
Great future stars!
steveantonchuk16 November 2023
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Some great future stars in this episode, plus the last 10 minutes are some of the most fun any Buffy episode has ever had.

Towards the end it get fun.... 4 gals in split screen with hilarious hijinx going on all over the place.

.. a background fight with a rocket launcher .. some robberies .. sex change magic

Future stars: Riki Lindhome has been a favourite of mine for years, and seeing her here so young is pretty cool.

Angela Sarafyan From Westwood fame also as a high school kid. Those eyes.

Add in some classic Jonathan and his friends stuff and you have a winner.

Probably top 20 episodes of Buffy ever. Not top 10, but close.
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4/10
Could the scenes of Dawn trying to impress RJ be the most painful thing ever committed to the screen?
roryhughevans9 June 2010
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Oh god, Dawn's "flirting" with RJ is painful. So embarrassing was it that i found it almost unbearable to watch, and it was just too slapstick and awkward to be amusing. And then we have to wait what feels like a gazillion years before anything else ever remotely interesting happens.

All in all the episode was an unnecessary rehash of of season two's "Bewitched, Bewigged and Bewildered", only much less funny. As if the comparison wasn't obvious enough, the producers felt us necessary to batter us around the head with a clip from that episode just to remind us how lazy the writing was. And while some people find the scenes where the four bewitched girls go their separate ways to try and win RJ over amusing, I found them too slapstick and stupid, with no real content. It could have been written by a five year old.

And how poorly filmed was the scene where Buffy rescued Dawn from under the train? She jumps off the side of the train, then somehow manages to run faster than it so that she can over-take it and pull Dawn from the tracks. How ridiculous.

There are two, and only two, good moments of the entire episode. Firstly, when they are at RJ's brother's house I find it interesting that Spike begins turning the angel statuettes to face away from him. I assume it's a subtle allusion to the fact that he doesn't want to face God in the light of his recent guilt brought on by his acquisition of a soul, although it could be purely his dislike of Angel himself.

The second good point is in the final scene, as they're burning the enchanted jacket. Buffy says to Xander, "weren't you at least tempted to try it on?" to which Xander replies, "I refuse to answer that on the grounds that it didn't fit"
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3/10
Bad copy of the classic episode "Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered"
Jack_Shaftoe2 March 2009
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One of the worst BtVS episodes for a number of reasons. First, its first half has Dawn behaving quite unbearably even by her own (low) standards. Second, love spell going wrong was already done million times better in season 2's brilliant episode "Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered". Third, the episode is full of plot holes. In order to create a sense of mystery the writers stretch the "rules" of that magical jacket so much. Unlike Buffy, it takes only a look for Willow and Anya to make them smitten with RJ which makes no sense considering that in this case this RJ should have been followed by a throng of women wherever he went like Xander in Season 2.
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5/10
New Season, Same Episode
Samuel-Shovel22 November 2018
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In "Him", a love spell takes hold of Dawn as she falls for the high school quarterback. While trying to intervene, Buffy gets caught up in it as well. Soon, Willow and Anya have fallen for the boy as well. It's up to Xander and Spike to figure out how to break the spell as all the females fight for RJ's affection.

I suppose the main difference between this episode and the old one involving Xander is this one includes Dawn and puts Buffy in a different light. Dawn as a young, impressionable teenager has a different perspective than the rest of the gang.

But there's really not too much to say here about this episode. Very adequate in every way but nothing special. It's a recycled idea, doesn't really develop the season arc in anyway, and can be skipped fairly easily. The only important occurrence is Spike moving in with Xander.
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2/10
Him? Hmmmmmmmm...
skay_baltimore8 August 2010
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Obnoxious or not -- Dawn continues to raise the most important questions in the BtVS series. SHE was the one who understood that, as The Key, she was NOT Buffy's sister. And she raised legitimate issues related to that. In "Him", she raises legitimate questions about relationships. She confronts Buffy with the paradox about how Spike getting a soul isn't going to "fix" everything, using the example of Xander -- who HAS a soul -- yet chose to leave Anya at the altar. She then goes on to broaden her scope, questioning relationships in general, because all of the relationships she sees around her fail to deliver the happiness one would expect from a good relationship. And how does Buffy respond? By walking away from her, drinking her soda. And still...people continue to rag on Dawn and give Buffy a free pass.

And could the opening scene -- in Xander's apartment with Xander, Spike, and Buffy -- possibly be any more uncomfortable? Yet Buffy continues to move people around the board as if they're her personal pawns. (We all know where "best intentions" lead, don't we?) But when it comes to uncomfortable -- Dawn trying out for the cheerleading squad wins, hands down.

Aside from that, there aren't too many other "wins" in this episode. Apparently, in Whedonland, when all else fails...make ANOTHER episode involving love spells. In fact, they're so shameless over there at 1 Lost Whedon Way, they even flashed back to the Xander love spell episode.

BtVS = BANKRUPT.

Bankrupt of fresh ideas. Bankrupt of direction. Bankrupt of everything except zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz's.

Add "Him" to the growing list of Season 7 Losers.

Any redeeming qualities? Anything? Anything? Bueller? Anything...?

Willow to Buffy: "This isn't about his physical presence; it's about his heart." Anya to Willow: "His physical presence has a penis". Willow to Anya: "I can work around it".

Willow to the group: "There's a simple answer to this. Just think about who loves him the most. Clearly I do...since I'm willing to look past the whole "orientation" thing." Anya to Willow/Group: "Well...you're gonna have to do better than that. I'd KILL for him" Willow to Anya: "You'd kill for a chocolate bar".
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1/10
Cringey, awkward and a bit 90210 again
exuberantloquacity6 November 2021
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This was so bad to watch. The way Dawn and Buffy acted, the awful dialogue and the awful plot. Other reviewers have pointed out the faults of this episode and also pointed out that it's a rehash of a Season 2 episode. No one else has noticed that, depending on the laws where we each live, Buffy fawning over a school student makes her a paedophile, as are Anya and Willow. Allowing that in some countries and states it may be legal, Buffy would still be breaching trust, abusing her power and more, coming onto a student the school. People react justifiably strongly when they hear of men preying on schoolgirls. It's just as wrong when women prey on schoolboys. What a gross episode. Dawn's crush and acting awkward could have been a scene from 90210, although I don't think even they would have also had an adult getting with a student in that show. Most programs wouldn't do it. Yet, here we are, in Whedonland.
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