A terrific episode, which so defines Mary.
The episode is in 2 parts; the first, is reuniting with her love, Dan, and the 2nd, is a question; now that you have the 'perfect' man, will she, or won't she, and, more importantly, why.
The first half of this episode, is one of the funniest of the 3rd season. Mary's run into Dan, who she had originally met when he was a teacher at a night-school journalism class she went to. Apparently, it was a very good match, but, something happened, along the way, and the 2 lost lost touch, only to be re-connected here, in one of the most awkward wedding parties imaginable.
The 2nd half has Mary reunited with Dan, but, even though he's ready to tie the knot, Mary isn't.
One has to try and understand the context of the episode's place in time - women were finally entering the work-force, full-on, at this time, and here's Mary - who's at a very important crux; she has - not just a job, but, a career, and, with it, a surrogate family. On the other hand, is Dan, and he represents old-style security, for a woman.
But, happening at thIs period in time, Mary is left wondering; is marriage to Dan all she needs? Is she ready for this? More important, is the sacrifice she, as a 70's career woman would have to make - is she willing to do it?
I've loved this series from the beginning, and seeing Mary now, asking these questions, is something a lot of woman asked - does a woman 'automatically' give up career once a spouse/partner appears? Will a woman be fulfilled - giving a career up, to just 'be' a housewife?
The first half of this episode is hysterical, as Judy - Dan's fiancée does everything she can to hold on to him. And Mary - even though she might claim to be innocent in what ultimately happens, is definitely a guilty conspirator, as I don't think anyone - unless the still had some feelings - would go to an ex's wedding party.
A great guest cast, with Michael Tolan as Dan, Steve Franken as Jonas, and Barra Grant as Judy.