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Endings and Beginnings
matthewjmiles12 October 2018
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The finale to Season 3 opens with a slightly long-winded death scene, in which the viewer is led to believe through a series of actions that a man is about to die, only for it to be his wife in a sudden accident completely unrelated to the set-up we just watched. This opening is very appropriate to close this season, which has highlighted themes of chance, luck and time (or the lack thereof) throughout, and of course it draws quite bluntly a parallel to Nate's avoidance of death in Episode 1 and the eventual unforeseen and random death of Lisa - whom was also the biggest change to Season 3 to set it apart from those preceding it.

While definitely darker in tone, and progressively so throughout the season, this episode culminated in a more optimistic outcome for the vast majority of the Fisher clan, and even for Brenda, as each of them comes to an understanding or finds themselves in a new position that helps them to begin moving on from their recent troubles: specifically Claire's abortion, David and Keith's relationship difficulties and Ruth's desire to find a new partner. As they address these issues, they start to emerge from the aura of depression that has consumed the Fisher household, ending the episode in an actually pleasant situation where things seem to be looking up, only with one caveat - Nate cannot move on with them and is forced upon a path of self-destruction that drives a wedge between him and his family and nearly claims his life. All of Nate's actions in the episode are understandable, brought to life with a consistently great performance from Krause that inspires heartache and sorrow, but so too is a wedge placed between the viewer and Nate, whom up to this point has been the most likeable and relatable character. You can't help but wince at Nate in the bar, getting into fights and acting irrationally, but it doesn't change the fact that his wife is dead, a fact that this episode illustrates quite poignantly. Claire's venture into the land of the dead is really not what you would expect for a show like this, because it actually seems something like what Heaven would be like. Everyone is happy and starting new, better lives for themselves - we even see a rejuvenated Gabe Dimas playing with his brother, and finally Lisa herself, who has pledged herself to raise Claire's recently deceased baby boy. This sequence is extremely emotional, and placed with every other heart-wrenching part of this episode I can't say you won't well up.

Six Feet Under has an incredible knack of instantly filling me with severe melancholy no matter what mood I'm up, which is a testament to the quality of the writing. Of course the performances are top-notch from the main cast, but we start also to see the very welcome faces of newcomers James Cromwell as George and Justin Theroux as Joe, whom it seems both will play a large part in things to come. I sense that the same cannot be said for Rainn Wilson's priceless Arthur Martin, but he has been a treasure since his introduction. Richard Jenkins owns every scene he is in, as always.

So, interesting new directions for Season 4, and I'm as much on board as I was after the very first episode. Onward!
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9/10
Replacing People
claudio_carvalho10 November 2006
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While speaking in the cell phone in the yard of her house, a "blue ice" of a plane going to Burbank comes off onto Anahid Havanessian. Her husband and her mother are badly treated by a totally uncontrolled Nate. He leaves Maya alone, thinking in Lisa, goes to a bar, drinks a lot and has sex with a prostitute. Six and half weeks after meeting each other, Ruth and George decide to get marry and inform the family, receiving a cold reception from David, Claire and Nate, that do not approve their marriage. Brenda meets her neighbor Joe, who plays French horn. They date, but Brenda advises she is in celibate. David invites Keith to go to the church; they have a long conversation and settle their situation. Rico has an argument with Vanessa because of Angelica, goes to the dance class alone and later a mate invites him to go to a bar. He meets the stripper Sophia "Infinity" and she has oral sex with him in his car. The police calls Nate and tells they found the body of Lisa. Ruth gets married with George, with the presence of Claire, David and Keith. Nate, completely wasted, fights in a bar and drives to Brenda's home.

In this episode, there is the confirmation that Lisa is dead. There is a contrast between a deranged Nate and the happiness of Ruth. David and Keith seem to have settled their relationship, and Claire is still very sensitive. My vote is nine.

Title (Brazil): "Desculpe, Estou Perdido" ("Sorry, I am Lost")
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10/10
This episode is an emotional roller coaster
blpkst11 August 2020
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During Covid-19, I am rewatching this very excellent series. "Six Feet Under" may be at the top of the best ever made for television series that ushered in a new golden age of TV. The writing and the cast are sublime. This particular episode where we are on edge waiting to find out just what happened to Lisa brims with emotion. Claire drives to the cemetery to find her father's grave and is met by her dead father. It is always such a treat when he appears for the viewer and for the member of his family. It is comforting because isn't it something any of us who have lost someone we loved wish we could experience? The cemetery is a slice of heaven as life. When we see Claire's old messed up boyfriend, Gabe playing with his little brother, we instantly get it. Gabe is there because he is dead. Claire gets closure knowing Gabe is truly in a better place. Such a cliche, but there it is and you accept it as part of the narrative of the show. But when we see Lisa there, it is truly shocking because we have our answer. It is odd that the characters never talk about these very deep experiences of conversations with their dead dad. Perhaps they are afraid that they are alone in these visits with him. The characters and characterizations are deep and the experience so rich. What a cast! Frances Conroy as Ruth is such an amazing actress, so raw, vulnerable and yet strong. Freddy Rodriguez communicates so much with a look, with his eyes. David and Keith's relationship is simply amazing in its ups and downs, working it out. Life is complicated and this show gets that, portrays that, celebrates that, mourns that. When it was on tv first run it was hard to wait for the next installment. I am grateful the series is available, it is truly incredible.
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Season 3: Darker and a little weaker than the previous season – but still works well in the most part (SPOILERS)
bob the moo23 February 2013
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The second season of Six Feet Under really improved and deepened the characters on the already strong opening season and it ended with somewhat of a cliffhanger as Nate goes into surgery. The third season returns to this point and does so with Nate's death but then undoes it in the same opening sequence and he survives. It is an odd opening sequence and it threw me because it echoes through the whole first episode as we see him having flashes from life into the afterlife he saw; it didn't totally work for me and I found it a little confused and I was glad when it moved on from it even if I wished it had done it better. The season jumps forward after this opening and we find Nate and Lisa married with their daughter, David and Keith in couples therapy, Clare in art college and Ruth alone.

The third season is mostly about relationships and as such it falters a little bit because it isn't as strong as the previous season, becoming a bit too much about events and plotting which distracts from the characters rather than adding to them. Most of it is really good even if it is depressing at times. The interactions are mostly honest and recognizable even if they tend towards the more extreme; the script feels genuine and the characters remain who they are and the conflicts within the various relationships fit who they are – mostly. I say mostly because there are plot devices that don't work or maybe aren't used particularly well, so for example Ruth and Arthur seems odd and while it sort of connects to who Ruth is at that point, it doesn't make too much sense. Likewise the situation with Lisa isn't helped by the time jump into it and the manner in which it ends. These sorts of things limit how engaging the stories are this season and this is amplified a little by how little cheer there is in the season as a whole – a lot of things are falling apart and it isn't always clear that it is worth it in the balance of things.

The cast are strong though, just as they have been before. All of them convince in their characters even if some of their material is weaker. Season 3 generally doesn't live up to the previous season but it is still engaging. It is almost too dark for its own good and it has too many threads that don't ring as true as they should, which limit the impact, but it still works – hopefully season 4 can rediscover the strength of the previous two seasons though, and address some of the weaker aspects of this one.
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