Jo invites Stefan into her father's house over the phone, but she moved out many years earlier. Only Joshua Parker should have been able to invite Stefan in. THIS IS CONJECTURE!!! There is no basis for this assumption given in the "world of The Vampire Diaries." A child, ESPECIALLY a daughter, always feels like the house that she grew up in, most especially if her parents still live there, will ALWAYS be her home, no matter where she goes, how long or far, not even after getting married! So this statement is just ignorance itself!