I am lucky to be 30 and that my high school times were phone/social media free, yet there was bullying, we just didn't use this term for it.
Being a teenager is a time of many doubts and insecurities, we not mature enough to deal with things.
13 reasons why just show us all how things can escalate pretty quick in the digital era. Yet, it is highlighting the same issues I had to learn how to deal with and the I bet people before me too, girls more than guys .
We learn from early age we are objectify and labeled by guys, and how it affect our confidence on ourselves many years after.
It also show how adults inability to remember how this stage of life can be, and therefore cant relate or identify with all the issues and things that affect the live of kids in school.
More than that, the show brings to light something that has become common and acceptable, victim blaming, if a girl get raped, she probably sent the wrong message to the guy and therefore it is never the guy fault if he forces himself upon a girl. How many colleges try to hide this facts and protected the criminals. After all this is just boys being boys.
There are so many other issues that the show brings to context, one of then is on one of Hannah's phrases : " We are all stalker" We like watching others people life but we are unable to take any kind of action that could make the difference in someone's life.
I have watched the series in 2 days, it is emotional, it is disturbing, it is a fiction that however represents a reality of many lives.
We need that parents and teenagers watch it and maybe, somehow we might be able to cause some change to the sick world we live in.
Being a teenager is a time of many doubts and insecurities, we not mature enough to deal with things.
13 reasons why just show us all how things can escalate pretty quick in the digital era. Yet, it is highlighting the same issues I had to learn how to deal with and the I bet people before me too, girls more than guys .
We learn from early age we are objectify and labeled by guys, and how it affect our confidence on ourselves many years after.
It also show how adults inability to remember how this stage of life can be, and therefore cant relate or identify with all the issues and things that affect the live of kids in school.
More than that, the show brings to light something that has become common and acceptable, victim blaming, if a girl get raped, she probably sent the wrong message to the guy and therefore it is never the guy fault if he forces himself upon a girl. How many colleges try to hide this facts and protected the criminals. After all this is just boys being boys.
There are so many other issues that the show brings to context, one of then is on one of Hannah's phrases : " We are all stalker" We like watching others people life but we are unable to take any kind of action that could make the difference in someone's life.
I have watched the series in 2 days, it is emotional, it is disturbing, it is a fiction that however represents a reality of many lives.
We need that parents and teenagers watch it and maybe, somehow we might be able to cause some change to the sick world we live in.
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