Must See Movies - Central Gay Theme

by ausrick | created - 20 May 2016 | updated - 20 May 2016 | Public

All-time favourite LGBT films with central gay theme.

These are "must see" movies that I rate 8, 9 or 10 stars!

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1. Un amour à taire (2005 TV Movie)

103 min | Drama, Romance, War

A young Jewish girl looking to escape the clutches of the Third Reich after seeing her parents and sister brutally slain while attempting to make their way to England is sheltered by an old... See full summary »

Director: Christian Faure | Stars: Jérémie Renier, Louise Monot, Bruno Todeschini, Nicolas Gob

Votes: 3,208

Brilliant script sure to blow you away! Rarely does a film combine suspense, pathos, intelligence and gut wrenching sadness in such a tight, heart wrenching narrative. Set in 1942 during the upheaval of Nazi-occupied Paris. French with subtitles. 10/10

2. Brokeback Mountain (2005)

R | 134 min | Drama, Romance

87 Metascore

Ennis and Jack are two shepherds who develop a sexual and emotional relationship. Their relationship becomes complicated when both of them get married to their respective girlfriends.

Director: Ang Lee | Stars: Jake Gyllenhaal, Heath Ledger, Michelle Williams, Randy Quaid

Votes: 382,501 | Gross: $83.04M

Painfully honest and frank, this story will stay with you long after the credits roll. It's rare to have the components that make a complete film combine in such a beautiful and powerful way. A true classic and rightly so, each time I leave with something new. 10/10

3. Maurice (1987)

R | 140 min | Drama, Romance

75 Metascore

Two English school chums find themselves falling in love at Cambridge. To regain his place in society, Clive gives up Maurice and marries. While staying with Clive and his wife, Maurice discovers romance in the arms of the gamekeeper Alec.

Director: James Ivory | Stars: James Wilby, Rupert Graves, Hugh Grant, Denholm Elliott

Votes: 23,598 | Gross: $3.13M

A top rate period piece based on Forster's great story, brought to life by Merchant and Ivory. A moving gay love story with true heroes in a rigid and incredibly bigoted Edwardian setting. Easy to view time and again. 10/10

4. C.R.A.Z.Y. (2005)

Not Rated | 129 min | Comedy, Drama

81 Metascore

A young French Canadian, one of five boys in a conservative family in the 1960s and 1970s, struggles to reconcile his emerging identity with his father's values.

Director: Jean-Marc Vallée | Stars: Michel Côté, Marc-André Grondin, Danielle Proulx, Émile Vallée

Votes: 34,135

Coming-of-age drama encapsulating Quebec in the sixties, seventies and eighties with an amazing sound track and great acting. Emile Vallee is incredible as Zac, the second youngest son in a family of five boys desperate to feel the love of his overbearing, homophobic father. French with subtitles. 9/10

5. Milk (I) (2008)

R | 128 min | Biography, Drama, History

83 Metascore

The story of American gay activist Harvey Milk, who fought for gay rights and was elected as California's first openly gay official.

Director: Gus Van Sant | Stars: Sean Penn, Josh Brolin, Emile Hirsch, Diego Luna

Votes: 179,879 | Gross: $31.84M

A really great biopic, this represents Harvey Milk as truly human with flaws and all. It also portrays the history of the time as honestly as can be imagined. Sean Penn really delivers in the lead role. 9/10

6. Capote (2005)

R | 114 min | Biography, Crime, Drama

88 Metascore

In 1959, Truman Capote learns of the murder of a Kansas family and decides to write a book about the case. While researching for his novel In Cold Blood, Capote forms a relationship with one of the killers, Perry Smith, who is on death row.

Director: Bennett Miller | Stars: Philip Seymour Hoffman, Clifton Collins Jr., Catherine Keener, Allie Mickelson

Votes: 140,825 | Gross: $28.75M

Philip Seymour Hoffman's brilliant portrayal of Truman Capote is the standout feature of this work. The complicated personal journey and exploration of his relationship with killer Perry Smith is fantastic. 9/10

7. Mysterious Skin (2004)

Unrated | 105 min | Drama

74 Metascore

Two pre-adolescent boys both experienced a strange event and later it affects their lives in different ways. One becomes a reckless, sexually adventurous prostitute, while the other retreats into a reclusive fantasy of alien abduction.

Director: Gregg Araki | Stars: Brady Corbet, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Elisabeth Shue, Chase Ellison

Votes: 76,352 | Gross: $0.70M

Araki explores a difficult subject with a story spanning ten years in the lives of two youths who were abused as children. Unbelievably potent and disturbing, this movie will wring you out. Joseph Gordon-Levitt is amazing. 9/10

8. Beautiful Thing (1996)

R | 90 min | Comedy, Drama, Romance

Jamie is a shy teenager, often bullied at school. His neighbour Ste has a rough time at home, being beaten by his father and brother. This issues bring them together and they find that what they feel for each other is more than friendship.

Director: Hettie Macdonald | Stars: Glen Berry, Linda Henry, Scott Neal, Tameka Empson

Votes: 25,764 | Gross: $1.50M

Wonderfully simple film that is a breath of fresh air and perhaps my favorite coming-of-age drama. A great British story set in a grim working class environment but told with incredible positivity. This one will leave you happy and uplifted. 8/10

9. Shelter (II) (2007)

R | 97 min | Drama, Romance, Sport

66 Metascore

When his college dreams are sidelined by family obligations, a young man finds comfort in surfing with his best friend's brother.

Director: Jonah Markowitz | Stars: Trevor Wright, Brad Rowe, Tina Holmes, Jackson Wurth

Votes: 24,045 | Gross: $0.14M

Sweet, sexy romance about a confused young artist torn between family and his future. All the anticipated story arcs are in place, however the actors do a great job with the script. Not without a few flaws, probably due to budget constraints. 8/10

10. A Single Man (2009)

R | 99 min | Crime, Drama, Romance

77 Metascore

An English professor, one year after the sudden death of his boyfriend, is unable to cope with his typical days in 1960s Los Angeles.

Director: Tom Ford | Stars: Colin Firth, Julianne Moore, Matthew Goode, Nicholas Hoult

Votes: 117,796 | Gross: $9.17M

Beautifully lush and precise film about a gay man struggling with the recent death of his lover. The film's message is left for us to take, not forced. Superbly cast, particularly Colin Firth who can give so much by doing seemingly so little. 8/10

11. Boys Don't Cry (1999)

R | 118 min | Biography, Crime, Drama

86 Metascore

A young man named Brandon Teena navigates love, life, and being transgender in rural Nebraska.

Director: Kimberly Peirce | Stars: Hilary Swank, Chloë Sevigny, Peter Sarsgaard, Brendan Sexton III

Votes: 103,328 | Gross: $11.53M

Based on true events and difficult to watch in places, with several violent and disturbing scenes. Swank builds a compassionate understanding of the complex character of Brandon without converting him into a saint-like figure. The real power here is to enable a wide audience to think about sexual differences and what it might be like trapped in a gender that doesn't fit.

12. A Home at the End of the World (2004)

R | 97 min | Drama, Romance

59 Metascore

A boy who has experienced many losses in his life grows to manhood and enters into a love triangle with a woman and his boyhood friend.

Director: Michael Mayer | Stars: Colin Farrell, Dallas Roberts, Robin Wright, Sissy Spacek

Votes: 14,005 | Gross: $1.03M

Powerful movie about the need to feel love and to belong. Three friends build their vision of 'family' and attempt to hang on for the ride. Colin Farrell provides an astonishing performance. This is another great movie for the romantics among us. 8/10

13. Love in Thoughts (2004)

89 min | Drama, Romance

A posthumous look at the last days of Guenther's life as he, his best friend, and his sister let loose on a four-day binge of alcohol, drugs, and sex.

Director: Achim von Borries | Stars: Daniel Brühl, August Diehl, Anna Maria Mühe, Jana Pallaske

Votes: 4,286

Based on a true story, this is an intense and heady exploration of privileged, destructive youth. Drawn slowly, it has a poetic feeling of melancholy and sadness. Rich cinematography and strong musical score round it off perfectly. I love that Gunther's sexuality was a significant part of the story, but didn't totally dominate. German with subtitles. 8/10

14. Gods and Monsters (1998)

R | 105 min | Biography, Drama

74 Metascore

The last days of Frankenstein (1931) director James Whale are explored.

Director: Bill Condon | Stars: Ian McKellen, Brendan Fraser, Lynn Redgrave, Lolita Davidovich

Votes: 32,775 | Gross: $6.39M

Rich character study of famed movie director James Whale with notable acting performances. McKellen and Fraser share empowering scenes where one character sees mirrored in the other their own fears and emotions. 8/10

15. Wilde (1997)

R | 118 min | Biography, Drama, Romance

70 Metascore

The turmoil in poet/playwright Oscar Wilde's life after he discovers his homosexuality.

Director: Brian Gilbert | Stars: Stephen Fry, Jude Law, Vanessa Redgrave, Jennifer Ehle

Votes: 18,130 | Gross: $2.16M

A sensitive, involving and detailed biopic of a great Victorian era writer. The forbidden relationship between Wilde and Douglas was venomous and sweet, brought to life perfectly through Stephen Fry and Jude Law. 8/10

16. Longtime Companion (1989)

R | 96 min | Drama, Romance

The emergence and devastation of the AIDS epidemic is chronicled in the lives of several gay men living during the 1980s.

Director: Norman René | Stars: Stephen Caffrey, Patrick Cassidy, Brian Cousins, Bruce Davison

Votes: 6,135 | Gross: $4.61M

Poignant and touching film that every person should see. Set in the 1980's and still incredibly powerful today, if you're not emotionally moved by this work, you're not human. 8/10

17. Patrik, Age 1.5 (2008)

Unrated | 103 min | Comedy, Drama, Romance

65 Metascore

A Swedish gay couple adopt what they think is an 18-month-old orphan, only to meet their new son, a 15-year-old homophobic delinquent.

Director: Ella Lemhagen | Stars: Gustaf Skarsgård, Torkel Petersson, Tom Ljungman, Amanda Davin

Votes: 10,393 | Gross: $0.06M

Refreshing drama about love and family relationships that will sweep you through a range of emotions. The simple script is beautifully acted, particularly Gustaf Skarsgård as Goran. Swedish with subtitles. 8/10

18. The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert (1994)

R | 104 min | Comedy, Music

70 Metascore

Two drag performers and a transgender woman travel across the desert to perform their unique style of cabaret.

Director: Stephan Elliott | Stars: Hugo Weaving, Guy Pearce, Terence Stamp, Rebel Penfold-Russell

Votes: 55,177 | Gross: $11.22M

Wonderfully nutty movie exploring life, love, fatherhood, and most of all friendship and loyalty as three very different drag queens travel in the remote Australian Outback. A movie that didn't follow trends or conventions, but start new ones. 8/10

19. Lilies (1996)

R | 95 min | Crime, Drama, Fantasy

When a bishop comes to a prison to hear the confession of an old friend he is forced to watch a play, performed by the inmates, about their youth together, love and betrayal.

Director: John Greyson | Stars: Ian D. Clark, Marcel Sabourin, Aubert Pallascio, Jason Cadieux

Votes: 2,843 | Gross: $0.22M

Intricate and ingenious use of the "theatrical" with cuts between prison re-enactments and actual events providing a seamless story. This tale of love, murder, and retribution is told in a unique way with a very artistic feel. 8/10

20. Bad Education (2004)

NC-17 | 106 min | Crime, Drama

81 Metascore

An examination on the effect of Franco-era religious schooling and sexual abuse on the lives of two longtime friends.

Director: Pedro Almodóvar | Stars: Gael García Bernal, Fele Martínez, Javier Cámara, Daniel Giménez Cacho

Votes: 63,432 | Gross: $5.21M

Pedro Almodóvar is an artist. The film noir style contains fascinating concepts beautifully and sensitively put into pictures. The complex twists and turns require your attention for a very worthwhile pay off. Gael García Bernal is great in three separate roles. Spanish with subtitles. 8/10

21. Yossi & Jagger (2002)

R | 65 min | Drama, History, Romance

70 Metascore

Romance blooms between two soldiers (Knoller, Levi) stationed in an Israeli outpost on the Lebanese border.

Director: Eytan Fox | Stars: Ohad Knoller, Yehuda Levi, Assi Cohen, Aya Steinovitz

Votes: 7,618

Brief at just 65 minutes, but very natural and surprisingly affecting. Set among a platoon of soldiers operating on the Israeli-Lebanese border, the story focuses on the secret relationship of two men. Filming with a handheld camera can be problematic, but there is a scene in the snow where it works beautifully. Hebrew with subtitles. 8/10

22. The Crying Game (1992)

R | 112 min | Crime, Drama, Romance

90 Metascore

A British soldier kidnapped by the IRA soon befriends one of his captors, who then becomes drawn into the soldier's world.

Director: Neil Jordan | Stars: Stephen Rea, Jaye Davidson, Forest Whitaker, Miranda Richardson

Votes: 60,081 | Gross: $62.55M

A sensation in 1992, and still an intelligently written and well acted thriller. It features one of the most startling plot twists ever conceived for film and definitely stands the test of time. 8/10

23. Before Night Falls (2000)

R | 133 min | Biography, Drama, Romance

85 Metascore

The life of Cuban poet and novelist, Reinaldo Arenas.

Director: Julian Schnabel | Stars: Javier Bardem, Johnny Depp, Olatz López Garmendia, Giovani Florido

Votes: 26,385 | Gross: $4.22M

A visual feast with this biopic of Reynaldo Arenas, the novelist and poet imprisoned and later exiled from Cuba for his controversial writings and open homosexuality. Javier Bardem captures the many complexities of Reynaldo, who constantly found himself unwanted by the world around him, yet filled with ability to see the beauty within it. English and Spanish. 8/10

24. Undertow (2009)

Not Rated | 97 min | Drama, Fantasy, Romance

76 Metascore

An unusual ghost story set on the Peruvian seaside; a married fisherman struggles to reconcile his devotion to his male lover within his town's rigid traditions.

Director: Javier Fuentes-León | Stars: Cristian Mercado, Tatiana Astengo, Manolo Cardona, Attilia Boschetti

Votes: 7,204

A beautiful script with simple exchanges delivering a powerful message. The cinematography is memorizing and the story captures perfectly the choice to become true to yourself and all those you love. Spanish with subtitles. 8/10

25. Wild Reeds (1994)

Not Rated | 110 min | Drama

83 Metascore

The fates of two partners are divided.

Director: André Téchiné | Stars: Élodie Bouchez, Gaël Morel, Stéphane Rideau, Frédéric Gorny

Votes: 6,648 | Gross: $0.92M

A solid coming-of-age drama about 4 teenagers in rural France in 1962. The film is very well made, offering a depiction of adolescence that is complex and sophisticated. The lush cinematography is beautiful throughout and the cast is great. French with subtitles. 8/10

26. Red Dirt (2000)

Not Rated | 110 min | Drama, Romance

Red Dirt offers the story of a young man's search to belong in this sublime expression of love and reconciliation. At only twenty, Griffith is struggling with the responsibilities of caring... See full summary »

Director: Tag Purvis | Stars: Dan Montgomery Jr., Aleksa Palladino, Karen Black, Peg O'Keef

Votes: 1,022

This film evokes Southern Louisiana so perfectly that you'll think you're there! Through strange entanglements,see how the heart's quest for love can find its way regardless of the difficulties. Walton Goggins brings incredible intensity and emotion to his character. Romantics will love this film. See it twice to capture all that is there for you. 8/10

27. Eyes Wide Open (2009)

Not Rated | 91 min | Drama, Romance

70 Metascore

A married, Orthodox, Jerusalem butcher and Jewish father of four falls in love with his handsome, 22-year-old male apprentice, triggering the suspicions of his wife and the disapproval of his Orthodox community.

Director: Haim Tabakman | Stars: Zohar Strauss, Ran Khalil Danker, Tinkerbell, Tzahi Grad

Votes: 6,573 | Gross: $0.02M

Simplicity and restraint imbue this film with power and conviction. Set in an ultra Orthodox Jewish society in Jerusalem, it tells the story of a family man whose inner world is torn apart when he falls in love with a young man. Highly recommended. Hebrew with subtitles. 8/10

28. Law of Desire (1987)

NC-17 | 102 min | Comedy, Drama, Thriller

A gay filmmaker becomes involved with an obsessive fan while still pining for his absent true love. Meanwhile, he shares a close but complex relationship with his trans sister, an actress.

Director: Pedro Almodóvar | Stars: Eusebio Poncela, Carmen Maura, Antonio Banderas, Miguel Molina

Votes: 14,087

Almodovar delights with a look at the meaning of desire and love. The sexuality of the protagonists is depicted openly and frankly and while gay-themed movies were taking shape in 1987, few were as erotic or in-your-face as this. Law of Desire was perhaps the film to establish Almodovar internationally. Spanish with subtitles. 8/10

29. The Talented Mr. Ripley (1999)

R | 139 min | Crime, Drama, Thriller

76 Metascore

In late 1950s New York, a young underachiever named Tom Ripley is sent to Italy to retrieve Dickie Greenleaf, a rich and spoiled millionaire playboy. But when the errand fails, Ripley takes extreme measures.

Director: Anthony Minghella | Stars: Matt Damon, Gwyneth Paltrow, Jude Law, Cate Blanchett

Votes: 243,745 | Gross: $81.30M

An intelligent well made thriller. Matt Damon explores the darker side of a character that you might come to be both sympathetic towards and freaked out by. 8/10

30. Philadelphia (1993)

PG-13 | 125 min | Drama

66 Metascore

When a man with HIV is fired by his law firm because of his condition, he hires a homophobic-small time lawyer as the only willing advocate for a wrongful dismissal suit.

Director: Jonathan Demme | Stars: Tom Hanks, Denzel Washington, Roberta Maxwell, Buzz Kilman

Votes: 258,219 | Gross: $77.32M

One of just a few mainstream breakthrough films, when this court-room drama was released, dying of AIDS was not understood or openly talked about. Tom Hanks is excellent in his Oscar winning performance. Scenes giving emotional depth and clarity to the intimate male relationship were cut, leaving the character played by Antonio Banderas unnecessarily under-done. 8/10



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