7/10
Be Who You Are or Know Your Place
2 January 2015
Warning: Spoilers
For some people, this movie says that everyone should be who he or she is and not pretend to be something else. For other people, this movie says that everyone should know his or her place and stay in it. It all depends on whether one embraces the message of the movie or is repelled by it.

The movie implies that Lora should have given up her aspirations to be an actress and married Steve, staying at home to be a good wife and mother. And it implies that Sarah Jane should have accepted the fact that she was "colored" (the term used in the movie), and not try to pass for white. Because they prefer imitation over authenticity, they both forgo happiness, until the end, when Lora agrees to give up her career and get married, and when Sarah Jane openly declares that Annie was her mother.

Strangely enough, our twenty-first century perspective is likely to make some people more supportive of Lora but less supportive of Sarah Jane. As for Lora, we now believe women are perfectly in their rights to want a career. Some women prefer to be homemakers, allowing themselves to be completely dependent on their husbands financially, and we wish them luck in their choice. But women who want a career of their own have every right to pursue one, and we regard any man who would object as patriarchal. After all, Steve could have agreed to let Lora continue to pursue her career as an actress after they got married, but that was obviously out of the question as far as he was concerned. He is resentful of the way she puts her own ambition before his love, because he thinks his love for her should have been the overwhelming consideration. In those days, if a man truly loved a woman, she was wrong not to accept his proposal of marriage, for it was thought that she would never again have a chance for happiness. Furthermore, we now believe a woman is better off if she is financially independent, in case the marriage goes bad. But in the 1950s, a woman was supposed to give herself to a man unconditionally, and not be thinking about "What if?" As a result, we are more likely today to think Steve was wrong-headed, and to be a little disappointed at the end when Lora says she is going to give up her career and marry him.

As for Sarah Jane, some people may be less supportive about her desire to pass for white, because today being an African American is not supposed to be something bad, something to be ashamed of. A lot of people would say she should have been proud of her African heritage. Well, that's a nice attitude to have in the twenty-first century, but considering the prejudice against African Americans in the 1950s, not to mention the laws requiring segregation, trying to escape from such oppressive conditions seems perfectly reasonable. I would have tried to pass for white had I been in her situation.

In fact, whereas Steve's attitude toward Lora's ambition makes us uneasy today, a lot of people feel equally uneasy about Annie. In the introductory scene at Coney Island, Annie refers to how Sarah Jane's light skin has caused her trouble. And she sees how Sarah Jane hates the black doll that Susie tries to give her. And when they are discussing what color Jesus is, Sarah Jane says, "Jesus is like me. He's white." In other words, Annie knows how Sarah Jane feels. And yet, she shows up at her school with an umbrella and galoshes without the slightest thought that she might embarrass Sarah Jane, who probably would have been embarrassed by her mother's appearance with rain gear even if race were not a consideration. We might give Annie a pass on that, but later, when Sarah Jane tries to make her own way performing in a night club, Annie shows up and ruins that for her daughter too. The way Annie disapproves of the night club, you would think it was a den of iniquity and that Sarah Jane was doing a striptease, but she is reasonably attired and merely singing and dancing in a sexy but respectable way. Annie should have warned Sarah Jane of the dangers of trying pass for white ("What if you have a baby and it comes out black?"), but then supported her daughter whatever her decision was.

Steve and Annie both try to impose their values on someone else. The movie seems to say that they are right to do so, and there are those who agree with this, but many would say they should have let others live their lives as they wanted to.
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