The Dilemma (2011)
7/10
Great premise
30 November 2020
Vince Vaughn and Kevin James are friends. They get along, and their wives, Jennifer Connelly and Winona Ryder, get along. In the classic scenario that we all hear about but never want to happen to us, what happens if your best friend gets a divorce? It really does upset the apple cart, even though in a logical sense it shouldn't. If your best friend's marriage crumbles, you start to question the solidity of your own. You reconsider inviting him along to outings because he'd be a third wheel, or you feel obligated to split time with his ex-wife because she was your friend, too - and then you have to hide the fact that you're still spending time with her, so he doesn't get hurt feelings. You wonder if he'll start flirting with your wife, or you feel jealous when he enters a new, exciting relationship.

So, if you saw your best friend's wife having an affair, would you tell him? It's quite a dilemma. The premise and execution of the film is actually quite good, managing to keep enough dramatic tension and realism mixed in with silly humor. If you really don't like the style of Vince Vaughn or Kevin James, though, you probably won't like it. I'm really not a fan of either Winona Ryder or Jennifer Connelly, but I was still able to enjoy the movie. Ladies in the audience will love drooling over Channing Tatum, the boyfriend on the side, and gents will appreciate Vince Vaughn's hesitancy as he tries to do the right thing. If you're in a rocky relationship, I wouldn't recommend this as a date night movie, but if you're watching it by yourself or with some pals it should be fine. Just don't watch it with your best friend unless you're prepared to answer how you'd react in such a dilemma!
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